To sort of force myself get mentally prepared for Ramadan I wanted to share some of my notes
and put them in free trainings with you the week before Ramadan comes in.

Now from what I’ve observed a lot of brothers aren’t making it completely through Ramadan
without acting out or slipping back to pornography and I want to really know what’s going
on “behind the scenes”.

If that’s been your experience, please take the time to share your story with me here and
mention to me what some of the recurring challenges or  frustrations that pop up for you
that you think cause you to slip back to pornography or masturbation.

Asalam Alaikum,

So the reason why things have been really quiet here on this blog has been because I’ve been preparing for the first intensive program
that I’ll be doing in sha Allah here: www.SexualUrgeControl.com

I have a series of videos there and the  first one is called Porn Addiction to Paradise.

Make sure that you watch the video here: www.SexualUrgeControl.com

This is an interview with Boiling Point from One Legacy Radio on the prompt is pornography the lesser of two evils?
Listen to the 3 parts and share your comments below in sha Allah.

Bismillah,

I’m sure you have come across websites or videos with banners or images or videos that they advertise saying “Free Porn Click Here”

But how free is it really?

In this post I would like for you to share how addiction has impacted your life negatively the most.

So please share below things like how it’s affected your self esteem, your performance at school or work, have you pulled into isolation because of it and found yourself more and more anti-social, have you lost money, time, sleep?

Have there been fights with your spouse about this caused directly or indirectly?

Did it lead you to do things you never would have imagined yourself doing before?

Whatever is in your heart that you can share with myself and others then please go ahead and do so.

I look forward to reviewing your comments.

bismillah,

Let’s dive really deep in sha Allah and explore the top fears you have in relation to breaking free…

There are a total of 3 questions:

1. What is it you fear and worry the most about that might happen or might be true in your life in relation to pornography and masturbation addiction?

2. What’s the worst case scenario that keeps you up at night that when you think about it overwhelms you?

3. Of all the people in your life who do you want to be the last person to find out about your situation and what do you fear their reaction would be?